Hello, ladies. Are you the ‘wifey without a ring’? A pawn playing the
part of a queen? Until you’re married, you’re no more than a friend
with a title. Hence, the titles – girlFRIEND and BoyFRIEND. That means
whenever things get rocky, neither one of you are obligated to work it
out. After he’s left you flat broke and heartbroken, its on to a new
woman. So, allow for me to turn you from victim to victor. After
reading this, you can’t use the excuse – “I didn’t know any better”.

Woe to you, young lady. You’re complacent without a real commitment.
Content with being called ‘wifey’ and having your own side of the bed.
He’s controlling YOUR television, remote in hand – forcing you to
watch ESPN for hours on end. But, you’re just happy to spend time with
‘him’. Right? Wrong! You’re preparing mashed potatoes and steaks for a
situation only worthy of french fries and steak-ums. Instead of
celebrating relationship milestones, you felt closer to him when you
two stopped using condoms. Smarten up, lady. While you’re washing his
clothes, you’re hanging yourself out to dry. Don’t be a fool all of
your life.

Ask yourself this – why would he marry you, when you’re ALREADY
performing all of your wifely duties? Why buy the George Foreman grill
when he gets your fur-burger for free – and you prepare it for him
with all the toppings? Relationships are like economics, it works by
providing incentives. Us men need a REASON to move things to the next
level. “If you want to get with THIS, you’ve got to get with THAT.”

Right now, think of yourself as a rental car. If he can drive you
around for free, why would he pay installments on you to own? Like a
rental car, he isn’t going to invest too much into you. No one gets a
rental car and puts rims on it or new speakers installed.. The same
goes for you playing a role above your capacity. What he’s putting
into your relationship is no more than the equivalent of putting music
CDs into a rental car. When its time to turn that car back in,
everything he put into it – he can leave with it. Beautiful woman,
you’re worth more than that. Your time is to be BOUGHT, not BORROWED.

I Love You,

Nova Giovanni

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Trey Songz aka Mr Steal especially if she went to his concert and he kissed her I hope that wasn’t Your Girl came through to chop it up for a little bit.  I asked him questions about his new album Passion Pain & Pleasure in stores now, and about the images that he is branding, including how much of it is applicable in his personal life.  Press play.#noSchwerzinger

This is a CSI Style Interpretation of what happened regarding the murder of one of rap’s greats, Tupac Amaru Shakur. Full 20 minute episode.

Shout outs to Crystal… we are going to have exclusive clips of the 2010 VMAs all night long. Keep checking back in with us.

All is well.

A statement released from Beyonce’s camp yesterday discredits the rumor that she fired her manager, Matthew Knowles.  “Matthew Knowles is the sole and exclusive manager of Beyonce,” the statement says.  Statement from BK’s camp below.

“Contrary to false rumors online, Beyoncé and her manager Mathew Knowles unequivocally have had and continue to have a close personal and business relationship.
Mathew Knowles is the sole and exclusive manager of Beyoncé.”